Chapter 1417
"Why? Just look at the trigram and you'll see, the third line is like a closed gate, you can't get through because there's no break in the middle, no gap, it's sealed, it represents a hindrance, a constraint."
"It means you have to be restricted at all times, you have to have restraint in your heart, you can't do whatever you want."
"But above the third line there is no more, this is also the upper trigram, it goes all the way through, it means that you can do whatever you want to do."
"The modesty trigram is divided into the upper kun and lower burgundy, the upper kun is kun modesty, the lower burgundy is burgundy modesty, we all say modest gentleman, modest gentleman warm as jade."
"Some people actually want to do something in their heart but they know it's not right, so they never do it."
"So they only think about it, but they never do it, so of course they can't do whatever they want, which is already very impressive."
"Confucius reached the state of kun qian. Although we cannot reach the state of a saint, we know that there is such a state, but we just cannot reach it."
"Confucius is the one who does what he wants from his heart, but does not overstep the rules. That is the realm of the sage; we can penetrate it, we can even comprehend it, but even after we have comprehended it we do not necessarily enter that realm."
"Confucius didn't say that he had to restrain himself, he didn't need to, he did what he liked, but he would never break the rules, he did what he wanted from his heart, he didn't overstep the bounds, when did Confucius enter this realm? At the age of seventy, seventy and following his heart's desires, not overstepping the rules."
"Throughout the ages, there are only four people who have entered the realm of Kunqian, namely Taoist Lao Zhuang, Confucian Confucianism and Meng Meng, just four people, and that is the sage."
"Some people say too modest is not hypocrisy, you can be modest is a prerequisite, you have achieved a great feat and then politely say where where, this is modest."
"You have no achievements and then you say that you have nothing to offer, what is the point of being modest? What qualifications and conditions do you have to be modest? This kind of person is a false modesty, a true villain."
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At the same time, far away on the other side of the future technology group executive president office, Li Bingling gazed at the floating screen Ye Hua relaxed and comfortable high talk for a while lost in thought.
She now finally had an epiphany, a great enlightenment. Li Linfei had been talking tirelessly for most of the day, not at all to the students of Yanjing University.
He wanted to be the most brilliant one, the one who was both Qian and Kun, and the one who was neither Qian nor Kun.
In the business world he was Qian and at a higher level he was Kun. He did not wish for the day when the dragon would fight in the wild and its blood would be Xuanhuang, but for the flying dragon to be in the sky and Huangtang Yuanji, the attack on the pass was almost over and the time to defend it was getting closer.
Li Bingling also realised that he had clearly only said the two trigrams of Qian and Kun during his speech, but he changed his trigrams and ended up saying the third trigram, the Humble Trigram.
It is not unreasonable to prefer the Humble Trigram for the remaining sixty-two trigrams.
And it didn't even go into detail about the Humble Trigram.
She realised what an important day it was, and her body trembled slightly, even as she still feels a pang of fear.
She had understood so she also knew that Li Linfei had done his best on this trip, and that he had done his best, and that he would see the fate of the heavens coming.
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At the military logistics headquarters, Tan Gang's office, he had also watched Li Linfei's speech live.
At this time the red phone on his desk rang.
"Hello."
"Minister Tan, there are important instructions from the top."
As soon as Tan Gang heard it, he immediately attached importance to it, and the other party whirled and said, "In the future, regarding the Future Technology Group, you can cross over all links such as the military commission office and directly consult your superiors in person, and also regarding the personal life of the founder of the Future Technology Group, pinch off any influence about him spreading negative public opinion in terms of his private life, so that it can be avoided, and when it appears, immediately pinch off the public opinion ."
Hearing these words, Tan Gang silently breathed a long sigh of relief, his whole body relaxed, and smiled, "Understood. This little problem is still a small fault, no blame can be placed on him, I will guard this gate for him."
"I'm not worried about that, I just hope he can guard his own pass in the future, that one no one can help guard except himself."
The stranger said leisurely and left on his own. Tan Gang watched him leave, and then looked back at Li Linfei on the stage of the hall.
He said to himself, "Should I leak it to him?"
A moment later Tan just shook his head and said to himself, "No, with his current state of mind, why would he need anyone else to wake him up? I believe he will understand it in no time. If he can't even understand it, how can he guard the fifth level in the future?"
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Xiangzhong City, the headquarters of Future Technology Group Corporation.
"Mr. Li!"
"Chairman!"
"Good afternoon, Mr. Li!"
When Li Linfei returned to the company's headquarters after ending his temporary shape of the capital, on the way to his office, the employees who saw him greeted him as usual, but looked more or less formal, with awe in their eyes.
Many of the younger employees had always thought there was a lot in common with him, other than his wealth, achievements and position in the company.
But it was only after watching his trip to Yanjing that they realised how wrong they really were, that the gap really wasn't ordinary, it was a complete difference between two worlds.
A child plays with an adult, and the child sees that the adult is having as much fun as he is, so in the child's world view he thinks that the adult shares his hobbies and pleasures.
But that is because the adult can always crouch down to the same height as the child, whereas it takes a long, long time for a child to actually reach the same height as an adult to grow.
Entering the office, Li Linfei went to sit down on the sofa by the window, made himself a cup of tea and savoured a sip.
Thinking about the awe-inspiring stares of the staff on the way just now, the two senior executives he met who had reached middle age were even more so.
Li Linfei could not help but dumbly smile bitterly, helplessly sighing to himself and shaking his head, it was obvious that the trip to Yanjing had given them a whole new perception of themselves, and because of this they were even more in awe.
It didn't take long for the office door to be opened and Li Linfei couldn't help but look up.
Chapter 1418
It was Li Bingling, who came over when she learned that Li Linfei had come to the office.
As soon as she came in, she looked around the office and her eyes quickly fell on the sofa by the window, and with her eyes facing each other, she looked at Li Linfei as he walked slowly, and when she reached him, she threw herself into his arms without saying a word, wrapping her arms around the other side and pressing her face against his chest.
Li Linfei really wanted to open his mouth to say something but swallowed it back, it was fine just like that.
Li Bingling was an intelligent and calm woman, and her behaviour was obviously caused by her trip to Yanjing.
After a long time she whispered softly, "Did you sense something?"
Li Linfei nodded: "Yes, I have sensed a very serious problem on this trip."
At these words Li Bingling immediately broke away from his arms and sat next to him looking at Li Linfei, seeing the latter's grave and serious expression, her heart could not help but tense up for a moment.
Her lips and teeth bit lightly and then loosened as she asked, "How serious is it?"
Li Linfei looked at her for a moment, averted his gaze into a long moment of thought, and muttered, "I perceive that we are so bullish that we are almost without friends.
"......"
Li Bingling looked nervous and ready to listen, but such words caught her off guard for a while, stunned for a moment at once a dance fist pounded in the past.
The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you're talking about.
Li Linfei's reaction was so strong that even a practitioner could not match it, let alone a woman like her. As the small fist with the anger added to it came flying, Li Linfei's left hand came together and Li Bingling's small fist was immediately wrapped in his palm and held in a full grip.
"She wanted to withdraw her hand but her strength was no match for Li Linfei's, so she simply gave in and threw him a cold, pretty face.
Li Linfei stared at her with a smirk and said, "Not only can I fuck you against you, I can also fuck you behind your back and both are happy, aren't you happy?"
"......"
"We've never been the ones to grind it out, just do it and be happy and be done with it."
"Get off, I don't want it!"
"I know this, don't is want, one yin and one yang is the way."
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Eventually, a chicken fierce cross stitching took place at a negative distance face to face, a long drawn out battle where you went in and out, back and forth, but it ended with Li Bingling continuing to remain a repeat loser, although the process was different each time, the result was the same.
Afterwards Li Bingling snuggled up to him, peacefully and quietly continuing the moment of tenderness, all without saying a word.
Li Linfei did not say she actually understood, and knew better than to let a woman worry about those things. She also did not pursue this matter to the end.
The first time he didn't say anything, he wouldn't say anything, and it would only turn him off, and instead of sharing his worries, it would add something that shouldn't have happened in the first place.
There is a bad thing called good intentions that do bad things.
Li Bingling is an intelligent woman and knows him too well, a macho man.
The more she tries to share his worries at this time, the better her heart is, the better her starting point is, but the result may not be good.
Because it will make him feel incompetent and unable to solve problems on his own, he has to need a woman to help, which seems strange but this is male style brutality and unreasonable.
They say that women who are in a mood are rude and unreasonable, but in fact men are the same, the difference is that things are different, but the behaviour after they get in a mood is exactly the same.
You want this I do not want this, know that this is not good, but must be so. I don't care if I'm angry with you.
In fact, this is the characteristic of the Chinese people. If you go along with the Chinese people's nature, everything is fine and reasonable, and you are also very sensible at that time.
But if you go against the nature of the Chinese people, it is useless to reason with the king of heaven.
The easiest place to succeed is at the dinner table, at the wine table, with a few bottles of wine, and then the right temperament, the most difficult things can be easily negotiated.
Foreigners just don't understand the Chinese dinner table culture.
Li Bingling is a very clever woman and knows that it is the other person's initiative to say such things that is the key, and if not, then the best way to really want to share one's man's worries is to be silently supportive and work in tandem with him, and that is enough.
Because she knows that Chinese people, especially Chinese men like Li Linfei, have a strong mentality of autonomy and resent passivity because it makes him feel like he is being hamstrung.
The gentle countryside continues...
The trip to Yanjing did not affect Li Linfei too much, and soon after he returned to the company he was busy with whatever he needed to do. He originally thought that the Kyoto trip would disrupt the arrangements and rhythm of the recent period.
But when he came back, he saw that Li Bingling had taken care of everything, and had already finished adjusting and rearranging things in a clear manner.
The first time I saw the woman, I noticed something, and because I noticed it, I'm fine now, in fact, I noticed it at the Huidong political and business exchange conference some time ago."
The actual fact is that on that day, he met with the vice president of the state grid, Ye Jun, and learned from him that the top was laying out the power linkage RMB, of which the future technology group was playing a pivotal role, and that at that time, Li Linfei hadn't noticed any problems, and at that time, he just felt that the strategic layout of the top was fantastic.
The real reason he figured out the deeper issues behind this was precisely Li Bingling and the girls. To say the least, Li Linfei had to thank the few of them for being blown out of the master bedroom that night and going to the side bedroom by himself in misery, alone and quiet for most of the night.
It is true that women are always behind a man's success, and being blown out by them is not intended to be a godsend.
The RMB pegged to electricity, this kind of deeply related to the national monetary system, the matter of stability of the big event, say is the sky is not too big thing.
The actual fact is that you can find out more and more about the problem, the fact that Ye Jun intentionally or unintentionally leaked this problem to himself on that day is not a small problem, good thing he has always developed a cautious and meticulous style from which he learned the truth of "walking on frost and ice to".