Chapter 1415
"It is the inevitable refinement of a person and the process of completeness, but many people want the beautiful and not the complete."
"Because the complete bad is also included in it, the beautiful is well understood, the exclusion of the disliked is just that, in it all you like, the good, is the beautiful."
"So the sky is falling, you have to find a way to cultivate yourself to be able to pick up the burden, otherwise you are exhausted, and then you start complaining about this injustice and that injustice, society is very harsh to me, it's not that society is unfair, it's that people can't cultivate themselves, they think highly of themselves, that's all."
"Well, you now have some success, a corporate executive, you will face people pouring wine, using women to seduce you, people will not use women to seduce grassroots employees, the proceeds are limited loss-making, of course not."
"But he as long as you catch you will indirectly catch a large part of the staff below, a large part of the resources, so this time you have to pay attention, the mouth must be tight, but not that just do not speak, but say reasonable and appropriate words."
"A lot of people are waiting to make up with more lies because they said one wrong thing, did one wrong thing and had to make up with more wrong things, the end result is miserable because the source has been wrong then how to do the result can not be changed, just delayed."
"When you get to the high staff supervisor you have to be even more careful."
"The lines of the fifth line of the Kun Gua are: Huang Tang Yuan Ji."
"The word yellow, yellow is the most harmonious of the many colours, yellow means coordination, you don't have too many opinions as a senior executive of a company of tens of thousands of people, you have to be able to coordinate, respect everyone's opinions and let them set things right."
"So you can't say who is right and who is wrong, who is good and who is bad, this time you have to do nothing, many people explain that doing nothing means doing nothing, in fact, doing nothing means not creating problems out, countless facts prove that problems are basically created by people."
"For example, a company is now a lot of problems are manufactured by the director, you ordinary employees talk mouth high okay, the position is big talk mouth high must be unlucky, because people believe your words, and not one or two believe, then you talk is responsible for, disaster comes out of the mouth ah."
"You as a senior executive, once you say who is good and who is bad, the problem will come, you praise that person, his heart bitter become a living target, you criticize the person he is very panic, the problem will come well."
"This is a double-edged sword, one side is dull and the other is good, do not look at only one side, this is called a yin and a yang is called the way."
"In fact, the heart knows, but the mouth is vague, in fact, pretending to understand is a proper pure Chinese people."
"Some people disagree, shouldn't you criticise when you do something wrong? It's too low to think that way."
"Why are you saying that? What are you saying? Can't you be flexible? You do it, things are done, the difference is just good or bad, so why don't you just do it right?"
"Then how do you do it? Coordinate!"
"Huangtang Genji is that I don't say anything, I respect everyone, but there is a premise, I am very good at coordination, you just have to handle it properly step by step, the boss will put 10,000 hearts to give you a big thing to handle, no need to say anything nonsense."
"So what Huang Tang Yuanji means is that you get a lot of credit for how you can't push it off kind of thing, but it won't cause the boss to be suspicious."
"Look at history when Han Xin was killed by Liu Bang, there are so many examples like that because you were doing too well and he was afraid of you and had to kill you."
"Put in today's workplace, I am ceo a hand, you a second hand performance more and more good, I feel the board of directors decided to kill me to let you on the throne, the company's first and second hand began to dislike each other, open and dark fight to each other to create trouble, then this company is in big trouble."
"For the first and second in command of the trouble is also big, so a person he struggles, in a supporting role in the position of doing well finally be killed off means that the work is lost, some people say jump ship, huh ...... not so simple."
"to other companies to do also have a stain, the stain is not erased not to mention that now the information is so developed can not be hidden, a bottle shattered to close up the seam can never be erased."
"So you can only cover it up, and the biggest point of covering it up is that one day it will be uncovered, and by then you will have made a thousand times the effort and the end result will still be a lost cause, meaningless."
"It's hard for you to go up, once you're in people know what you used to be, you could have done a great job but people are suppressing you and tripping you up you can't do well."
"But it's not that every great meritocracy ends up miserable, otherwise it's better to be Buddhist and not to struggle, the result is all a lost cause anyway, it only shows that the cultivation is not good enough."
"Qiankun is to be paired, at home it's called husband and wife, in society it's called monarch and minister."
"Many people say you're bullshitting how can there be a monarch and subject in modern society? To think so is also to limit yourself to being completely inactive. "
"How can there not be? There is always someone in the lead role and someone in the supporting role, so what's wrong with the lead role being the 'king' and the supporting role being the 'minister'? If you look at a team, everyone is the boss, it's all over, no one listens to anyone, and in the end there is a lot of bickering and bickering, and then nothing gets done, and the problems get bigger and bigger, and in the end it's too big to handle, and it's over."
"So then a team must have a person in charge, and not a general person in charge, is a when faced with a matter of endless debate can not reach agreement, need a person can veto, make the final decision, and then the implementation."
"This person is Qian. The company has a group of bosses, who do not obey anyone, and even if there are a group of bosses, there is not a veto power, the result? The corpse is cold for a few years."
"Some people are born with a personality that is dry, some people are born with a personality that is kun, but these are not really awesome people."
"A truly formidable person is one who is both dry when it is my turn to be dry and kun when it is my turn to be kun, both dry and kun and neither dry nor kun."
"I Ching Fuxi eighty-eight 64 trigrams, each trigram has six lines, meaning that you have to climb all your life, to see how many lines you climb to, it is the creation of each person, the best is the fifth line until, that is the most pleasant, which is the stage of extreme brilliance, rushing to the fifth level to guard the pass."
"Those who enter the sixth line are miserable, very miserable, because what goes around comes around, and what goes around comes around."
Chapter 1416
"Qian enters the sixth line as Hyper Dragon with Regret, while Kun enters the sixth line as Dragon Warring in the Wild, and the result is its blood is Xuan Huang."
"So the lines of the sixth line of the Kun trigram are the dragon fighting in the wild, and its blood is Xuanhuang."
"You see the Kun Gua from the first line to the fifth line of the lines do not appear a dragon word, how six lines appear the word dragon?"
"There is a sentence that the majority of female students may not be happy to hear, but I have to explain what cannot be avoided, the big deal is to go to the Women's Federation to ask for punishment when the time comes: the most poisonous woman's heart."
"Why is not the most poisonous man's heart?"
"Girls she is very soft, they say women are made of water, Wei also soft stop, but do not forget that a drop of water can also penetrate the stone, forced to the end she is more rigid than men."
"When you go to the end of the dry trigram is the kun trigram, and the kun trigram is dry at the end, the dragon comes out."
"The Qian Dragon and the Kun Dragon have crossed paths..."
"When the first and second in command of a company have infighted, think how much damage it will do to the company and to both of them."
"So much so that its blood will be Xuan Huang."
"Xuan is the colour of the Heavenly Dragon, or the Qian Dragon; yellow is the colour of the Earthly Dragon, or the Earth Dragon. We all say the Heavenly Dragon and the Earthly Tiger, and at that time the Earthly Tiger is already in the form of an Earthly Dragon."
"When the two dragons meet, there must be a division between the main and the secondary, neither of them is convinced, there must be a battle, the Heavenly Dragon fights with the Earthly Dragon, the Qian Dragon fights with the Kun Dragon, once it starts, this no one can save, no one can stop it, the result is naturally that heaven and earth lose their colour, the sky breaks up, the blood of Xuan Huang is sprinkled all over the world."
"In ancient times the emperor and the powerful minister fight, the country is broken, the family is dead, in the present company that is also bankrupt, not dead or disabled, your resume will always have such a stain can not be erased."
"How can you call that a tragedy."
"That's why everything has to be done in moderation."
"We've all heard that 'reading history can be wise', our Chinese nation has 7,000 or 5,000 years of history, you have to read it to deeply appreciate the reasoning behind it, not to memorise it, that's a waste of time."
"Not only is it not wise, it will also lower your wisdom, if you look at it, you end up with nothing, because the history you see is all scripted, and how is the script presented to the audience? Acting! That's just fake or seeing the skinny."
"So the truth is always behind the scenes, what you see is just the phenomenon. Before the painter paints, he must first have a number in his own mind, how can he paint if he doesn't have a number in his mind?"
"You can read books, but you can't read hearts, you can read paintings but you can't see through hearts."
"Behind the numbers is reason, reason, and if you understand reason, you have numbers, and if you have numbers you immediately know whether it is true or false when you look at the elephant."
"That's why it's important to be reasonable."
"We all know the very famous Zeng Guofan family letter, he had the ability to rebel, but he just did not rebel, he knew that the dragon war in the wild, he had passed Huangtang Yuanji, he began to threaten the emperor when he understood this reasoning what he did?"
"He had to desperately write a family letter, but what kind of argument is there that says that the family letter is something that outsiders can see? What kind of family letter is that?"
"If you know reason, you know that, oh, Zeng Guofan's family letters are not written for his family to read at all, but for the emperor to read."
"If Zeng Guofan dared to write to the emperor and say, "Old Buddha I have the ability to rebel but I definitely do not rebel, that would certainly its blood Xuanhuang and the people of the world would be in ruins."
"So he desperately wrote a letter to his family, and then the emperor read it and then was relieved and let him go, not only saved the lives of countless people in the world from being charred, but also left a name behind him, otherwise it must have been a dragon war in the wild, and its blood Xuanhuang"
"Counter-example, Nian Zhuyao finally is the dragon war in the wild, the result was Yongzheng killed, he did not have Huang Tong Yuanji, he could not guard this off, Zeng Guofan guarded."
"Most people actually force themselves to death by making their own deaths, the Qian Gua cannot operate alone, flowers need green leaves to accompany them, bosses need subordinates to cooperate; the Kun Gua cannot operate alone, you find a good boss before you can fully cooperate with him."
"So let's look at the I Ching, now that we've finished talking about the Qian and Kun trigrams separately, let's now look at them together and see what they look like as a whole."
"Qian Gua Kun Gua."
"The first line: the latent dragon does not use the frost and firm ice to."
"The second line: now see the dragon in the field without learning any disadvantages."
"The third line: Tigers and Tigers can be chaste."
"Fourth line: leap or leap in the abyss bracket no blame."
"The fifth line: fly fly dragon in the sky Huang Tong Yuanji."
"Sixth line: hyperactive dragon has regret dragon war in the wild."
"So you see, each line corresponds to a perfect match, this is the Tao, one yin and one yang is called the Tao."
"There are no good or bad hexagrams in the I Ching, there are no good or bad hexagrams, only changing hexagrams, we often say why do you always change your hexagrams?"
"Because the I Ching has no good and bad sayings, it always gives you two paths to choose from, the Qian Gua is two paths, you follow what the Qian Gua says, adjust yourself whenever and wherever you can, adjust yourself in stages, you do what the Gua says will do so, it is the same as telling you that if you don't do so then it must be the other, two paths, one bright and one dark, this is what one yin and one yang is called the Tao. "
"Are there any good trigrams in the 64 trigrams? Yes! There are exceptions to everything, there is one trigram that is the absolute good trigram, or the trigram that can make you invincible, and that is the modesty trigram"
"Of the 64 trigrams in the I Ching, there are sixty-three trigrams that have lines inside that are both auspicious and malicious, only one, the Humble Trigram, has all lines that are auspicious and none that are malicious."
"So follow the Qian Gua and you will always be invincible."
"Each trigram is divided into an upper trigram and a lower trigram."
"When you split the modesty trigram into the upper and lower trigrams, the upper trigram is like this, three parallel lines with one section broken in each line, these are the three yin lines, this is the Kun trigram of the eight trigrams, and the lower trigram is like this."
"The top one of the three lines is not broken in the middle, this is the only yang line in the Humble Trigram, this is also the third line of the Humble Trigram, the bottom two are broken in the middle, so the next trigram this is the Burgundy Trigram of the Eight Trigrams."
"Then reunite to look at the whole of the modesty trigram, read the I Ching must look at the trigram, look at the trigram also to split up and look at the whole, but also partially, both the lines and the trigram, the whole six lines of the modesty trigram only the third line is yang, the other five lines are yin."