Chapter 1407
"Knowing the I Ching you will immediately adjust to it, prepare well, and also look at the timing, the timing is not right you see Zhuge Liang he was actually ready a long time ago, he is about the same size as Guo Jia, he is still latent."
"And Guo Jia is now, not that like what is rumored nowadays Guo Jia is not dead, Wolong is not out, this is nonsense, they have not fought how do you know which is stronger or weaker."
"Because of this now online has been arguing, hand to hand with the results there is no argument, but there is no doubt that the two are the king of the talent, are talented and tactical are through the sky and the earth."
"Zhuge Liang in the dive is not that he is afraid of Guo Jia, but he is very clear that the time belongs to him never come out of the mountain before the time has come, the time has come not also can not, why?"
"Because the admiration of the name of Liu Bei three Gu Mao Lodge he still does not come out of the mountain that life will be obscure, and he also knows that later out of the mountain this life will not be able to seek a hundred years of fame."
"You see Liu Bei so sincere you are indifferent, see you Zhuge Liang is also not what talent, bullying, but so, Zhuge Liang great thing is "know it can not do it and do it, die after it""
"He's not saying I have a 100% chance of success before I go out on the mountain, absolutely not, because he knows that the right person, but the wrong time, useless."
"The 'dive' simply means to be fully prepared, the majority of girls remember yo, in the future when you see your sweetheart, it's fishing for a boyfriend not chasing a boyfriend, but always remember to look at the right time, look at the right opportunity, and then it's now."
Audience: hahaha
"The lines of the second line of the Qian trigram "Seeing the dragon in the field, the profit to see the lord""
"I ask all students to think about what it means to be a 'lord'. What is the difference between an adult and a sage? You see, when the common people call the lord it is usually to save their lives and redress their grievances, but you never hear it said that the saint, ah, save my life, I've been wronged, ah, usually you can't help but say, ah, the saint shows his spirit, God bless."
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A saint will not save your life nor will he redress your grievances, he will only teach you a lesson, the person who can teach you a lesson is called a saint, the one who can save your life and redress your grievances is a lord. My lord my lord save my life, my lord do me justice ......"
"So, you don't care about the size of the position of your top boss in the workplace, whether it's ceo or a small supervisor, he can save you and redress your grievances as long as he's in charge of you, the saint is very good at moral cultivation very good at reasoning very learned but can't save people, if the saint could save people under the universal sky would have been peaceful long ago."
"There are two meanings of 'li see lord', one says you have to behave like a lord, let people feel that you are a person with a broad mind, taking care of all people, not just yourself, then people will not reject him."
"He this kind of performance we can let him go all the way, must not block him, you also can't guarantee that in the future to come a talented without virtue, themselves also suffer, now this one not only can not block but also should assist him a wave is right, we have a beauty called the beauty of adults."
"What do you mean by invincible? Where is the enemy when there is no enemy in mind? How can you be invincible? Benevolence, so those who are benevolent are invincible."
"But some people a performance only for themselves, a mind only want to trample others underfoot, fast and furious, fiction can not be reality, wake up, people certainly before you take off must take you out."
"So, performance, is to make people popular, it's called 'li see adult', so I say a word today, if you cause people to be jealous, in fact, you yourself must review, not entirely other people's business, we know a saying, a slap on the wrist does not ring."
"If you yourself have a clear conscience, you behave like an adult, others think that you have a way of doing things and are very good at it, but add a sentence that will not hurt others, then he will not stop you even if you do not help each other."
"If you must hurt others, then you are in big trouble and others will take advantage of your lack of success to strangle you now."
"Too many young people as soon as they leave society he suffers a big blow and gradually loses faith in society and ends up seeing the dark side and then being worse than anyone else, which is actually very pathetic, the world is beautiful? It's actually very ugly! The world is ugly? It's actually very beautiful!"
"The second meaning of 'Likely to see the Lord', you have to be appreciated by the Lord."
"It's useless not to be appreciated by your boss for your performance, remember it's important to be appreciated by the people who can control your destiny, it's important to be appreciated by your boss in the company because every boss has his or her own style, it's all different."
"So your performance, having the ability is basic, that's good to understand, how can you perform if you don't have the ability? No ability to perform hard is a real offering, into a joke."
"So having the ability is the basic skill, but the key is to see if it's to your boss's liking, this is called 'profit to see adults'"
"Because only then can the boss promote you, especially when everyone is hitting you, it's entirely up to the boss, the boss said the hit is right, you are finished, be smart and roll your own bunk and leave."
"Or it's more embarrassing to wait to be fired, but the boss says you've been wronged, everyone hits you and nothing happens to you at all, and you go up quickly and a promotion and pay rise is within reach."
"So 'li see lord' two meanings, one yourself has style one above appreciate you."
"Ok, second level passed, you've shown now, you remember you're not a latent dragon now, you're a present dragon now, present, that means you've gone from dark to light."
"So when it comes to the third stage of promotion you have to be on high alert, you see Zhuge Liang faced all kinds of tests as soon as he came out, Guan Yu Zhang Fei was not convinced, Guan Zhang and the two of them thought to themselves that we and Liu Bei are sworn brothers, how old are you?"
"Then in the workplace, originally I was going to be promoted to director of this department, but then a newcomer came along halfway, convinced or not? I'm sure I don't! Let me upset, I let you upset, can pull you down I still very cool, very realistic."
"So if a person doesn't perform then, once you show up, you have to be prepared to withstand the blows, ostracism, pressure and many other tests that are about to come from all sides, and if you're not vigilant, you'll soon fall off."
"Then some people think it's strange, I'm obviously doing so well and working so hard in the company team, with such excellent results, why do I keep getting sidelined and hit?"
"It's actually quite simple, so many people hitting you means you are really doing a beautiful job, if no one even hits you it means you are hanging around the company and not taking you seriously, so you have to think of many things the other way round."
Chapter 1408
"The third line of the Qian trigram reads, "The gentleman who is always dry and vigilant is blameless."
"What the I Ching seeks is "no blame", not great fortune, let alone eating chicken tonight, remember, don't eat chicken."
The audience laughed
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"After great luck is not great luck, it must be great evil, he is connected, when you get certain benefits, you are destined to lose certain things, without losing, it is impossible."
"Take me for example, now the scale of Future Technology is getting bigger and bigger, I'm busy, last week I ran to Sweden, to Finland, to Germany, to France, to England, to here, I want to accompany my girlfriend there is no time."
"Have a girlfriend also can not accompany, I am now sitting here to communicate with everyone, then this period of time must have lost the opportunity to accompany my girlfriend, this is the gain is necessary to lose, but on the other hand, there is also a loss is necessary to gain, I now get the opportunity to communicate with everyone."
"If I don't care about the company, I don't care how it works and I don't care if I live or die anyway, then I'm sure I'll have plenty of time to spend with my girlfriend."
"So it depends on which one you are willing to choose, once you make a choice there is no room for regret, you have to accept the outcome for better or worse, so choice is the most valuable thing."
"The highest thing the I Ching seeks is called 'blamelessness', the so-called blamelessness is not the absence of faults, who can be without faults if not a sage? And blamelessness means that even if there are faults it doesn't matter, only then is it called blamelessness."
"Many people think that blamelessness is the absence of faults, that as long as you live you will always have faults, the difference is just big or small.
"Reflecting on the workplace, if you have a small problem of being late all the time, but your performance comes out first every time, then your boss will easily understand you, it's okay to have small problems and faults, and he won't scold you, let alone fire you."
"We generally like great fortune, the I Ching says great fortune and danger and disaster are one and the same, there is a kind of killing is called hype kill you all, when people praise you the higher you fall down the more miserable, you are still complacent and forgetful that die more miserable, people, can be complacent, but must not forget the shape."
"That's why we have a saying that if you don't match your virtue, you will be in trouble, why are you climbing so high for no reason? One doesn't have to climb that high, you comprehend that yourself."
"But it is logical then to climb as high as one should, if it is not necessary then I will stop in moderation, I am happy wherever I go, it is right that you have such cultivation and do not force yourself to pursue anything."
"But always try your best, I will try my best, but I don't force it, doesn't that combine?"
"Including reading, you read a book, an article seems to be very strenuous and hard feeling very meaningless, then I advise you not to read, because you are not suitable for this thing why force yourself? If you force yourself, you will definitely not be happy."
"Many parents in China teach their children, your child is obviously gifted in science but you see Tatsuro and encourage your son to be a big star when he grows up, so aren't you killing him?"
"Life is meant to be a different life, the same life that's a clone, we have an idiom that says people are different, people are different, there is only one Tatsuro, there is no second and the timing is not right."
"So many things must be remembered in one sentence: this is the right time."
"When the time changes everything changes, and the main thing to read in the I Ching is the word 'time', and Confucius is characterised by making reasonable adjustments, at all times, and also to adapt to local conditions."
"That is, the Qian Gua uses the Nine, you are the dragon, when it is time to dive, when it is time to show up, when it is time to stop, when it is time to look, so it boils down to an idiom of being able to bend and stretch."
"A great man should be able to bend and stretch, for example, the current situation I am being scolded by my boss, then I will be condescending and not say a word, when I see that my boss has almost scolded me, my anger has also subsided a lot."
"This time I will then take the initiative to pour him a cup of tea, then I will say something well, and be careful people are going to hit me again, then I have to be careful what I say, but not not not to say, not to speak you are equally finished."
"But you say the words too full is also finished, words can not be full, Chinese people never say only half of the words, the other half hidden in the heart and hidden is the most core."
"The Chinese are the most self-vigilant of all the peoples in the world, and also the most long-term thinking, you see our national strategy does not move ten years to start, decades to plan, a hundred years to plan."
"We often talk about being invincible, Sun Tzu talks about knowing oneself and knowing one's enemy a hundred battles, not a hundred battles won, but a hundred battles undefeated means a hundred battles undefeated, undefeated I can accept, but victory that is better."
"We Chinese don't gamble on national fortunes like the Order of the House next door, when you gamble there are losses and wins, when you don't gamble you are guaranteed not to lose, so isn't winning just a matter of time?"
"So why do you think the Chinese people like to push and drag? I know you have something hidden in your stomach but I don't know, I have to ask again, you let out a little bit, I don't think it's interesting enough, you think it's really a little bit not interesting enough either, so let's say it's interesting again, okay, that's what it means, interesting enough."
"So pushing and dragging, just so that both sides can be satisfied, we have been talking about win-win actually really, but the Westerners now beat him to death, they think we say win-win is we win twice, this this this, you can not communicate ah."
Audience: haha.
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"So if you say too much, there is no room for manoeuvre, you are blocking your way back with your own hands, and in the end, it is you who will suffer, and as soon as you say too much, someone will immediately pass the word to your boss, and then your boss will think, "That's only because I gave you the opportunity, can you do it if I don't even give you the opportunity next time? Won't you be finished?"
"If your boss says you can, you can't; if your boss says you can't, you can't; if your boss says you can't, you can't disobey."
Audience: circling the wagons.
"So be careful what you say, but not what you don't say."
"As soon as a person starts to feel successful he will be complacent, and as soon as he is complacent he will forget, then his speech will be very hurtful, and hurtful words will be hard to hear, and hard words will spread very quickly, and in the end they will be self-harming."
"I think too many people suffer from this, especially a young person who has just entered society, he just doesn't know it yet, he doesn't know why it's like that."
"But when you read the I Ching, you will be happy when you suffer a loss, because it's a long memory, and as the saying goes, to suffer a loss is a blessing, that's the truth of the I Ching."